What can happen to my Ex Girlfriend if she didn’t tell me she got pregnant by me and kept the baby behind my back? Is there anything i would be able to do?
nothing can happen to her. maybe there is a reason for not telling you? if you want to know how to go about being involved talk to her, if she declines take it additional (soicitor) if your honest. if your unsure if its yours then do a test. if you just want to know for the sake of it and would rather not bother then dont.
Is the baby really yours? Maybe that’s the reason why she did not tell you. But if you can prove that the baby is yours, and if you are attracted with the child, you can provide child support if your ex-gf will acknowledge it.
What do you mean? Do you want the child? If so, take her to court and fight for joint custody. Do you want nothing to do with her or the baby? Are you trying to relinquish any financial or legal responsibility? There’s nothing you can do about that – it’s still your child whether you knew about it or not.
are you complaining about the fact she didnt have an abortion?? maybe that is why she didnt tell you. you cant do anything apart from question for a dna test to prove paternity. You could sign away all rights as a father but you cant take it back if you change your mind. You might have to pay child support but it doesnt sound like she wants anything to do with you anyway
There is no law stating that a women has to tell someone that she is pregnant, nor can it be held against her if she didnt tell you about it. Though she does have the right to take you for a DNA test and then take you to court for child support rights and also for sole legal custody if it is proven the child is yours. You on the other hand have a right to also request a DNA test and also sue for visitation or joint custody, but if you do choose to sue dont wait to go to court, the longer you do, and they can prove you knew about the child the harder it will be for you to prove that you truly sought after to be involved and you might not get what you were hoping for in court. But if your thinking you can get her in distress for keeping the baby without your information your not vacant to get anywhere with that. IF you dont want anything to do with the child you can sign over your parental rights but just remember that doesnt make you not responsible for the child, you may still be required to pay child support. excellent luck!!
No….shes ALLOWED to keep the baby. You do have rights as a father to file for custody if you would like (joint custody) but you will also be responsible for child support. She will not get in distress for not telling you tho….
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SydneyMum101
April 3rd, 2009 at 12:39 pm
1Like what? What are you really asking – whether you can simply wash your hands of all responsibility for the child?
sweets
April 5th, 2009 at 2:56 pm
2You could sue for custody, but that’s about it. You can’t charge her criminally or anything.
Lulu86
April 8th, 2009 at 11:54 pm
3You can’t do anything to her. But she could still question for child support if she sought after to.
Jess & bubs due october 11
April 12th, 2009 at 8:04 am
4Such as? What would you like to do?
Hayley K
April 15th, 2009 at 2:10 pm
5nothing can happen to her. maybe there is a reason for not telling you? if you want to know how to go about being involved talk to her, if she declines take it additional (soicitor) if your honest. if your unsure if its yours then do a test. if you just want to know for the sake of it and would rather not bother then dont.
Eileen Mae P
April 17th, 2009 at 4:41 am
6Is the baby really yours? Maybe that’s the reason why she did not tell you. But if you can prove that the baby is yours, and if you are attracted with the child, you can provide child support if your ex-gf will acknowledge it.
Kristin B
April 18th, 2009 at 7:22 am
7What do you mean? Do you want the child? If so, take her to court and fight for joint custody. Do you want nothing to do with her or the baby? Are you trying to relinquish any financial or legal responsibility? There’s nothing you can do about that – it’s still your child whether you knew about it or not.
LadyMaui
April 21st, 2009 at 4:08 pm
8Simply talk to her and question her you want in, if that is what you want or just simply talk to her
KeepSmiling
April 22nd, 2009 at 11:27 am
9are you complaining about the fact she didnt have an abortion?? maybe that is why she didnt tell you. you cant do anything apart from question for a dna test to prove paternity. You could sign away all rights as a father but you cant take it back if you change your mind. You might have to pay child support but it doesnt sound like she wants anything to do with you anyway
J L
April 25th, 2009 at 12:01 am
10There is no law stating that a women has to tell someone that she is pregnant, nor can it be held against her if she didnt tell you about it. Though she does have the right to take you for a DNA test and then take you to court for child support rights and also for sole legal custody if it is proven the child is yours. You on the other hand have a right to also request a DNA test and also sue for visitation or joint custody, but if you do choose to sue dont wait to go to court, the longer you do, and they can prove you knew about the child the harder it will be for you to prove that you truly sought after to be involved and you might not get what you were hoping for in court. But if your thinking you can get her in distress for keeping the baby without your information your not vacant to get anywhere with that. IF you dont want anything to do with the child you can sign over your parental rights but just remember that doesnt make you not responsible for the child, you may still be required to pay child support. excellent luck!!
Its a GIRL! Due Feb 23rd
April 27th, 2009 at 12:03 am
11No….shes ALLOWED to keep the baby. You do have rights as a father to file for custody if you would like (joint custody) but you will also be responsible for child support. She will not get in distress for not telling you tho….
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