HOW CAN I GET MY EX BACK?

cesar g asked:


My ex girlfriend contacts me but it seems that she just want us to be friends. She still has some stuff at the house we lived for 4 years and she has the keys. She goes sometimes for the mail and takes some of her things and we talk but like friends. There is not that spark. She changed a lot since the last November. She was a lovely person, believer, and loyal to friends. Now she moved to her friend house and she has problems with her, she doesn’t believe in God anymore, and just want to have fun, get drunk and come to her friend house the next day drunk. She is trying to feel the things we stopped feeling in our relationship. She doesn’t have many friends but I think some guys are taking advantage of the situation. She is European, and since I meet her she was a different person because she was believer and followed the bible. You know that a believer person is conservative which is nice. Anyway, the point is that the root of the break up is “freedom”. She felt that the last year of our relationship was like in prison because we were not doing the crazy things we used to do, we were not feeling the things we felt at the beginning, I was jealous, we didn’t realize we were hurting each other by not putting exciment in our lives.

Now I am trying to get her back, I can forgive everything. I have learned a lot during this time and working on it. But, I don’t know how to change her negative feelings to positive ones. I think she feels that coming back to me would be coming back to the same, which is taking her freedom.

One of my questions is: 1. Should I take the keys she has from the house and don’t allow her to go there anymore? Because I feel she can get there any time she wants, but I don’t want to be rude.

2. How can I change to negative feelings of freedom she has for me?

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