How can I convince my friend not to get back with his ex-girlfriend?
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My guy friend always seems to have a lot of drama over this girl who he was with, and she cheated on him, but now she wants him back. How can I convince him not go back with her because she’s just going to hurt him again and he deserves better than that? Oh and I’m basically in love with this guy too, and so it just hurts me to see him be with someone that doesn’t even appreciate being with him.
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My guy friend always seems to have a lot of drama over this girl who he was with, and she cheated on him, but now she wants him back. How can I convince him not go back with her because she’s just going to hurt him again and he deserves better than that? Oh and I’m basically in love with this guy too, and so it just hurts me to see him be with someone that doesn’t even appreciate being with him.
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r u gay? nothing gainst gays just wondering? anyway just remind him of the pain he had the first time
All the convincing in the world couldn’t sway his mind. Sure your input will be taken into great consideration but if he wants to be with her bro, he won’t listen.
tell him she has herpes
Let him make his own mistakes.
you can’t convince him not to if he really wants to, don’t try. does he know you’re interested? tell him you’ll treat him like a man should be treated and see if he is interested back. that’s all you can do.
“Are you sure you should get back together with this girl?”
Or you could just ask him out first
i feel your pain……remind him of all the tears and anger and time wasted with this girl and remind him that he can do much better…….aka………..YOU! lol
Yeah I agree with Marie..
You can only warn someone so many times but they will still do what they want. The only want to make him realize it is by letting him get hurt again.
Oh and NEVER get with your friends ex, regardless of how much you like them. Don’t be a backstabbing B****
I’ve been in a similar situation….if he likes her theres no changing his mind. I’ve tried. Once he gets hurt again he’ll realise it was a bad choice going back to her. Or an alternative, tell him how you feel.. maybe he’ll feel the same way about you, or maybe he won’t go out with her to avoid hurting you.?
well ive been in the exact situation before and its a tough one. u have to tell him how u feel. maybe he feels the same wa but thinks that u dont and that his ex is the only person that’ll be with him or that loves him. but if i were u i’d beat this bitch up! hahahaha u need to just take the risk, i did and it worked! he forgot about her and got with me because he felt the same as i did. just take the risk. its better to know now than to spend the rest of your life wondering if things good have ever worked out between u two. good luck!
tell him how much you think he deserves better and confess your love to him or it will forever eat u up especially if hes with her and u are in love he may feel the same about you get some courage up and if u have to get a lil tipsy if u arent underage and that will give you that lil push to let loose and say hey she isnt worthy of a guy like you shes full of drama and u deserve a good caring respectful female like me and i ust want you to know i care alot for you and i hope you leave her alone because she is nothing but a headache go up to him and look him in the eye and kiss him
Aww man that honestly SUCKS :’[
Well, if you’re really in love with this guy, you’re just gonna have to let him go and let him find out himself that she isn’t the one for him. He’s gonna fall and when he does be there for him. Gee, these situations deeply bother me, I bet he’s a nice guy. And we all know nice guys with big hearts tend to settle for whats in front of them. Girl all i can say is be there for him and definitely support him. He just has to find out the hard way by himself that she’ll do him dirt.
Keep your head up high!! and dont loose faith!
-brit
Just tell him it is too soon for them to get back together yet, give him the reasons why, state the negative facts about his relationship with her(like the reason wh they broke up). And tell him how much he deserves better and then comfort him tell him how much you like him and leave it up to him whether or not he will mess up or not.
if he doesn’t know that she cheated on him then you must tell him about that.. and tell him you like him a lot..it may seem weird at first but it will feel good letting it out..
the old fashion list of pros on one side cons on the other
other than that he will do what he really wants to so just keep the duct tape ,band aids, and whatever else you fix a broken heart with at the ready for the next round
well heres my story my girlfriend cheated on me i was pissed and my heart torn apart into little pieces and all i wanted to do is to be with her and after a week of crying and she wanted to go out again and i told her know because i knew she would hurt me again and it was painful saying that to her and you got to tell him give time to him maybe a week and he should figure it out from there and your problem in love with him give a week then give him a lap dance and see how he feels lol just joking all i can say is talk to him
Try to remind him of what she did to him without being preachy. Don’t give him ultimatums and if he does decide to get back with her, you’re going to have to let him make his own mistakes. Trying to push the issue will just get him angry with you. Just be there for him and when she does break his heart (because it sounds like she will) try to avoid telling him “I told you so.” (I know it’s hard) Also, maybe take a look at your own motivations here. The girl does sound like a b**** from what you’ve said here, but if you’re in love with this guy you might be making her out to be worse than she is. If not, then just follow the above advice.
DO NOT, I repeat “DO NOT” interfere with your friend and his ex. He is asking for what ever he gets from her if he stays in that relationship. If he is into being hurt by her there is nothing you can do or say that will help him.
As for you basically being in love… If you are scared to confess that to him, Then you don’tt love him at all. True love will not sit still and say nothing. But are you really ready to handleDamagedGoods? Give him time to get over her if tthat’swhat he decides to do and continue to care for him and be his friend. If its meant to be, It will be…
Ok…. now I get you.Since you have some interest in him,its best you avoid the whole story.But you may choose to reveal some info’s about her back screen actions say by stories or by examples of any activities in the past and etc.This will also allow him to value your consents and your relationship later though not immediately.